Authored by William G. DeFoore, Ph.D.
This definition of trust will help you understand what it really means to trust someone, and it will also show you how to get to the level of comfort and peace you're looking for.
Trust is actually a very big subject, so we're going to look at a picture of a Circle of Trust to start to wrap our minds around it.
As you can see, the heart of the matter is spiritual. The reason for that is that everything in the physical world is temporary, and therefore unreliable as a consistent resource for trust.
The reason that religion and spirituality have been such a large part of the human experience from the beginning of time is that we need something lasting, something bigger and more steady than anything this material world can offer.
Let's look at each of these levels in the Circle of Trust one at a time.
We'll start at the center and work out to the edge, because your spiritual trust and self trust are truly the heart of the matter. I think this will make a lot of sense to you as you consider each of these important steps.
If you choose to, it will be beneficial for you to continue expanding your circle of trust in this manner, until you have a sense of trust in humanity and life itself.
Now let's dive even deeper into the definition of trust.
"Trust is knowing deep inside you that all is well, that you are wise enough to make good decisions and learn from the others while ever expanding your circle of trust to include more good souls like you."
Why is trust so important? Why does it matter so much to be able to trust those you love?
It matters because you need to feel...
Is it possible to trust too much? Yes, it is. Trusting too much is as risky as trusting too little. That's why we're focusing on balance in this definition of trust...see the chart below.
This helps us to sleep at night, to send our children off to school, and to relax in a world that is ultimately unpredictable and potentially dangerous.
We have to find a balance with trust. Take a look at these paradoxical aspects of trust that we do well to consider:
As you can see, we're not talking about blind trust here. This approach to the definition of trust is a matter of being smart, healthy and paying attention.
I encourage you to keep your eyes and mind wide open, while growing stronger in your sense of trust, confidence and peace every day.
As suggested in the chart above...
Remember, you're connecting with your true, authentic and most powerful self when you are in a state of positive emotion, and a strong, balanced sense of trust will contribute greatly to your positive emotions.
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