Goodfinding is the happiness habit of finding and focusing on what is good, right and working in yourself and those around you.
Why do you need a habit like this? Because your brain's already got a very strong problem solving habit, which will keep you focused on what's bad, wrong and not working. Those are the problems that need fixing, right?
The problem with problem solving is it can stress you out and steal your joy, if you let it.
Here's the plan...you're going to keep solving problems, but you're going to have more fun doing it!
And, you'll be more successful at getting those problems solved -- because when you're having fun, your brain works better and you have more energy.
When you develop the happiness habit of Goodfinding, everything will work better for you, because finding the good helps the good find you.
Here are some questions that might pop up for you: Why is this so hard? Why aren't people just naturally happy? Why do I have to work on this? Those are great questions. Let's look at some answers.
We start out happy. Children are naturally joyful beings, as long as their basic needs are met. Then we grow up...and become serious about fixing things, reaching goals, and generally trying to create the life we want.
So, what gets in the way of happiness? Keep reading...
Your automatic, default mental program goes like this:
Most of us face challenges of one sort or another, on an ongoing basis. If you allow the default problem focus to dominate your awareness, you will overlook and ignore the many beautiful blessings within and all around you.
This is actually how most of the world operates, most of the time. You don't have to live like that. You can be the exception to the rule...you can be one of those people who truly enjoys life.
Watch this short video, and it will give you a step-by-step overview of where we are and where we're going:
Ready to create a new default brain process? The old default process is the problem solving pattern described above, which leads to stress and unhappiness. (Don't worry, you'll keep solving problems, but you'll be better at it, and have more fun doing it.)
Your mind is always on scan, looking at past, present and future events and emotions. When you become a Goodfinder, this automatic mental activity will benefit you in every way.
The three activities of a Goodfinder are, gratitude for the past, appreciation in the present, and optimism about the future. You're finding the good about what has happened, what is happening, and what's going to happen.
You'll even learn to find the good in the "bad!" That way, you gain and benefit, no matter what happens. Here's your new happiness habit:
That's your happiness habit. The more you practice it, the easier and more effective it will be. Remember, you're changing a life-long pattern of mental focusing, so it won't happen overnight.
But you can do this -- and you'll be so glad you did!
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